Wednesday, 23 May 2007

How to praise children

When we praise a child, our wording can either be specific (e.g. “You did a good job drawing”) or generic (e.g. “You are a good drawer”). According to Andrei Cimpian and colleagues this subtle distinction can make a big difference to children's motivation when things go wrong.

The researchers played a kind of drawing game with 24 four-year-old children using hand-held puppets. The researchers controlled a 'teacher puppet' that asked the children's puppets to draw different objects. No drawing was actually performed, instead the children had to mime their puppet doing the drawing.

For the first four drawings the researchers responded as if the drawings had been a success. Crucially, half the children were praised generically whereas the other children were praised non-generically.

Then for the next two drawings, the researchers responded as though the children's puppets had failed to draw correctly (e.g. saying they had omitted wheels on a bus or ears on a cat). This was to see how the children responded to criticism.

The children who had earlier been told they were good drawers responded badly to the criticism. They lost interest in the drawing and failed to come up with strategies to correct the drawing mistakes. By contrast, the children previously praised in a non-generic fashion, responded better to the criticism, and came up with ways to rectify the failed drawings.

The idea is that if children are given generic praise – in this case being told they are a good drawer – this leads them to believe they have a stable, trait-like drawing ability. This belief turns to loss of morale when confronted with failure or criticism. By contrast, the non-generic praise, specific to a given episode, is rewarding without leading to false confidence.
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Cimpian, A., Arce, H-M. C., Markman, E.M. & Dweck, C.S. (2007). Subtle linguistic cues affect children's motivation. Psychological Science, 18, 314-316.

Post written by Christian Jarrett (@psych_writer) for the BPS Research Digest.

3 comments:

  1. What would be interesting is to know which one is the most powerful motivator, e.g are kids pushing harder to make the best out of themselves when they're told they're good drawers, or when they're just told they make good drawings...

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  2. romano7:00 pm

    Yeah, in this instance it seems better to be specific. But without generic praise a child might not have any aspirations?

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  3. Anonymous4:12 am

    I've read that telling them they're good drawers actually makes them LESS likely to want to draw or to try to do anything new or special, because they're afraid to make mistakes, because they don't want to prove you wrong. If they're already "good drawers," then they should stop trying, stop innovating, stop excelling, stop drawing, really, so they don't lose that distinction.

    I don't understand why someone would think the only reason a kid has aspirations is that you tell them what aspirations to have. I think kids will innately find the things they love, if given a decent chance. We don't have to judge their abilities for their abilities to grow.

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